Luna's island

Thursday, December 21, 2006

Girls...boys...a game...what rules?


I always wondered what rules we should folliw to succeed in a relationship...
for girls there are some rules, somethings they can do, others they should not and for boys it's the same...

But talking about rules means that every girl and every boy act and think and feel the same..but that isn't actually true...


some of the rules are like...don't call too often, to sms too often...Wait for the guy...give him time so that he doesn't run away...but what if THE guy wants to be reachable, to receive those calls and sms? how we will know that? what if he thinks we're not interested because we didn't make a certain step, we didn't make that little sign while we were actually fighting for not doing what when the only thing we were thinking of was making that call, sending that sms???
And i don't know much about men's rules...but i'm sure they some too!!

How? Why? Why not? ....Too many questions? Too many wonders...specially when the relationship is new and we don't want to ruin the chances we have to make it last ... the time it has to last....

But in my case, i can't just be me...i could be very patient sometimes, in some circumstances...and sometimes so incredibely impatient...i'm just trying to listen to some good pieces of advice that were given to me...and Oh God! i hope it's gonna work!!

I'm waiting by my phone for a sign...a call, an sms, something...it's been two days...two long days...and now what? So now what?!!

5 Reactions:

  • At 12:44 AM, Blogger Ex-blonde said…

    perso, j'ai renonce à essayer de déchiffrer les régles et de les apprendre , je fonctionne de plus en plus au feeling, envie ou pas envie, ca ne marche pas à tous les coups mais ca me permet d'etre fixée rapidement;-)
    so complicated!!!

     
  • At 11:24 AM, Blogger psynaj said…

    fais le toi et comme ça tu seras fixée au lieu de te torturé! parfois les règles il faut pas trop les appliquer!

     
  • At 11:24 AM, Blogger psynaj said…

    fais le toi et comme ça tu seras fixée au lieu de te torturé! parfois les règles il faut pas trop les appliquer!

     
  • At 6:41 PM, Blogger voyagedelavie said…

    Le plus important est de rester neutre ... de trouver la patience pour laisser les choses se faire seul d un élan spontanné, honnete et pure...! Car chaque autre interprétation ou tentative pour controler la situation est fausse et cela engendera plus de souffrances ...meme si on a toujours l impression qu il faut trouver une technique magique qui résoudera les problemes ... Mais il n y a pas de probleme mais une vue fausse d un angle étroit ...alors on apprend a changer l angle de vue , a marcher dans le sens contraire celui de l éspoir des reves et de l optimisme ...sans conditions et limites... et ainsi ouvrir la porte magique de soi meme ... et s ouvrir plus aux gens ,dégager plus de chaleur humaine plus de joie et d amour ... et tous les miracles se realisent cm par cm ...

     
  • At 7:42 PM, Blogger Luna said…

    @Voyagedelavie...

    merci pour ton commentaire et tes conseils...pourvu que nous connaissions tous des miracles prochaines... et que nos voeux les plus cher se réalisent!

     

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